On the week-end my pal Lauren shared a couple of stories that are frustrating dudes. She explained about some guy whom, three times in their courtship, began pressuring her to own sex with him.

Whenever she declined his offer, their counterargument ended up being:

“seriously, it isn’t the 1950s anymore.”

She had been quite exasperated and told me she could not find out dudes today. Neither can I. We have no concept exactly exactly how a man believes that a declaration like this is appropriate, respectful, or productive.

Four facets which make a guy work this method:

Upbringing. Some dudes were not raised to respect ladies. Continue reading →